Community guidelines

KOIHAI works because most people are decent. These rules protect that. Breaking them can end your access permanently.

Please do

  • Say hi like a human — a real first line goes a long way.
  • Respect a no. If someone doesn't want to continue, let it go.
  • Keep it anonymous until you both genuinely want more.
  • Report anything that feels off. It takes one tap.

Never

  • No harassment, hate speech, threats or stalking.
  • No sexual content, nudity or explicit requests.
  • No begging for phone numbers, Instagram handles or photos.
  • No one under 18. No exceptions.
  • No selling, promotion, spam or scam links.
  • No impersonation or pretending to be a different gender or age.

Enforcement is at our discretion and may include warnings, temporary suspension or permanent removal without refund.